Good afternoon sir,<\/p>\n
I am a 26-year-old guy. Please, I have been having challenges with stopping fornication. Even after hearing the word, I still find myself misbehaving and this happens when I am really determined to set my heart spiritually before God. Sir, I also really want a true destined wife for myself, someone who is truly mine. How can I go about this? Though I have a girl who truly loves me and wants to spend life with me, what should I do sir?<\/p>\n
Thanks. I will be glad to see your reply. God bless.<\/p>\n\t
“But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them if they remain even as I am; but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion<\/em>” (I Corinthians 7:8-9).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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