{"id":38902,"date":"2021-10-22T16:50:38","date_gmt":"2021-10-22T21:50:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=38902"},"modified":"2021-10-25T09:26:43","modified_gmt":"2021-10-25T14:26:43","slug":"if-a-jew-had-divorced-and-married-another-prior-to-jesus-death-would-he-have-to-put-away-his-new-wife-before-being-baptized","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/if-a-jew-had-divorced-and-married-another-prior-to-jesus-death-would-he-have-to-put-away-his-new-wife-before-being-baptized\/","title":{"rendered":"If a Jew had divorced and married another prior to Jesus&#8217; death, would he have to put away his new wife before being baptized?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Thank you for taking my question. If there had been Jewish men on the day of Pentecost who had previously given their original wives a Bill of Divorcement and were now married to other women, would they have to put away the new wives before they were baptized?<\/p>\n<p>Thank you.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>Repentance is required in order to be saved (Acts 2:38). To be baptized without repentance is no more effective than being baptized without having faith.<\/p>\n<p>Implied in your question is a belief that remarriage was allowed under the Law of Moses for any reason. That was the question the Pharisees asked of Jesus. &#8220;<em>Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?<\/em>&#8220;(Matthew 19:3). Jesus&#8217; response was that it was the wrong question because it focused on ending marriages instead of making a lifelong commitment work (Matthew 19:4-6). People then and today put far too much emphasis on divorce than on fulfilling God&#8217;s expectations. When asked why Moses commanded divorce, Jesus replied that Moses only allowed divorces. Jesus then went on to say that remarriage is only allowed if a divorce was due to the fornication of the person&#8217;s spouse (Matthew 19:9). In stating this, Jesus clarified what was meant by &#8220;<em>When a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some uncleanness in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand, and sends her out of his house, &#8230;<\/em>&#8221; (Deuteronomy 24:1-4). &#8220;Some uncleanness&#8221; is not referring to anything that makes a person unclean. The uncleanness, according to Jesus, was only sexual uncleanness (i.e. fornication).<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, Jews who divorced for other reasons and then remarried were in adultery under the Old Law. They would continue to be in a state of adultery under the New Law. Just as a thief cannot continue stealing after he becomes a Christian, an adulterer must leave his adultery before being baptized.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Thank you, sir, for your reply.<\/p>\n<p>If I may ask a couple of follow-up questions. If I understand you correctly, every Jew living under the Old Law where there was a divorce and where fornication was not involved was living in an adulterous marriage and therefore unsaved if they remained in that state. Doesn&#8217;t the word &#8220;suffer&#8221; in Mark 10:4 mean in Greek &#8220;to allow, permit, let, liberty.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Please help me understand. Thank you.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>They said, &#8220;Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away.&#8221; But Jesus said to them, &#8220;Because of your hardness of heart he wrote you this commandment&#8221;<\/em> &#8221; (Mark 10:4-5).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The Pharisees, who were trying to trap Jesus in an error, claimed that Deuteronomy 24:1-4 was permission to divorce for just about any reason. Jesus&#8217; response was that their understanding of the law was flawed. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 was only given because the Jews were too stubborn in their desire to sin. Jesus explained that marriage was to be for life (Mark 10:6-9). He then explained that divorce and remarriage leads to a state of adultery (Mark 10:11-12)<\/p>\n<p>In Matthew&#8217;s account of the same discussion, Jesus also explained that the &#8220;some uncleanness&#8221; in Deuteronomy 24:1 was referring to sexual uncleanness (i.e. fornication) (Matthew 19:9). Only in this case was a person allowed to divorce his spouse and marry again without it becoming adultery.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Thank you for taking my question. If there had been Jewish men on the day of Pentecost who had previously given their original wives a Bill of Divorcement and were now married to other women, would they have to put away the new wives before they were baptized? Thank you. Answer: Repentance is required&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[52,167],"class_list":["post-38902","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-baptism","tag-divorce"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":7461,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/must-a-couple-previously-married-separate-after-they-are-baptized\/","url_meta":{"origin":38902,"position":0},"title":"Must a couple, previously married, separate after they are baptized?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 18, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: If a couple consists of two divorced individuals, and they are converted to Christ and are baptized, do they need to separate? 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