{"id":36908,"date":"2013-02-04T20:46:00","date_gmt":"2013-02-05T02:46:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=36908"},"modified":"2021-07-25T20:49:27","modified_gmt":"2021-07-26T01:49:27","slug":"how-do-we-decide-how-much-to-give-once-we-are-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-do-we-decide-how-much-to-give-once-we-are-married\/","title":{"rendered":"How do we decide how much to give once we are married?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>I am a member of the church of Christ. I&#8217;m a firm believer in giving 10% even if we aren&#8217;t commanded. My fianc\u00e9 gives less since she doesn&#8217;t make as much as I do. My question is: Once we get married should we continue giving individual offerings? Another question is: When the Jews gave their 10% under the old law, was it as individuals or as a family?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>There is no required percentage of giving. See:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/are-christians-to-tithe\/\">Are Christians to tithe?<\/a>\u00a0When you marry, it is no longer his money and her money. It is the family&#8217;s income. You decide as a family what is to be given to the Lord in thankfulness for all that He has done for you. &#8220;<em>So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver<\/em>&#8221; (II Corinthians 9:7).<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I am a member of the church of Christ. I&#8217;m a firm believer in giving 10% even if we aren&#8217;t commanded. My fianc\u00e9 gives less since she doesn&#8217;t make as much as I do. My question is: Once we get married should we continue giving individual offerings? Another question is: When the Jews gave&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[157,159],"class_list":["post-36908","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-contributions","tag-giving"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":4884,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/giving-to-the-lords-work\/","url_meta":{"origin":36908,"position":0},"title":"Giving to the Lord&#8217;s Work","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"June 4, 2019","format":false,"excerpt":"by Matthew Bassford Of all of the spiritual topics that we might address, one of the most sensitive is giving. First of all, it\u2019s about money, which always has been very important to people. Second, though, the Holy Spirit\u2019s words on this subject have been misrepresented and abused for 2000\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Article&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Article","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/article\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":3821,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-there-liberty-in-how-we-give\/","url_meta":{"origin":36908,"position":1},"title":"Is there liberty in how we give?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"April 2, 2019","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I have a question concerning worship. Is there liberty when it comes to some parts of worship? For example when it comes to giving, does one have to give during worship service or can someone give any time just long as it\u2019s on a Sunday. 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