Yesterday I just touch my penis against my girlfriend’s vagina. I don’t think there was any sperm out from my penis, and I did not try to put it into her vagina. So, I want to know: is there any possibility of her becoming pregnant?<\/p>\n\t
The problem is that when a man is sexually aroused he drips pre-ejaculate fluid. That fluid can contain sperm. It only takes one sperm, which is able to swim, reaching the woman’s egg to cause pregnancy. The odds are almost zero, but not absolutely zero.<\/p>\n
But there is a far more important issue because it remains regardless of whether you are about to become a father or not. The problem is that you were doing things you should not have done. You had no business exposing your genitals to a woman you are not married to. Nor should you have been pressing up close to her in that naked state. In the Scriptures, your behavior is defined as lewdness and what going on in your mind was lust. “Let us walk properly, as in the day, not in revelry and drunkenness, not in lewdness and lust, not in strife and envy. But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts<\/em>” (Romans 13:13-14).<\/p>\n You are like a person who says he is afraid of falling off a cliff but meanwhile walks along the edge. The fact is that sin is progressive. You convince yourself that nothing happened last time, so no harm should come if you do the same again. But it is rarely the same, each time you go a bit further and one day when you do put your penis in, you’ll wonder how it happened because you did not intend for that to happen. But the will be a lie. A person who has no intentions to have sex doesn’t play along the edge of sex.<\/p>\n Sex and everything that leads up to sex belongs only in marriage. “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge<\/em>” (Hebrews 13:4).<\/p>\n\t Thank you so much. I promise you that I won’t do it again. I am sorry for what I have done with my girlfriend. I love her so much.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Question: Yesterday I just touch my penis against my girlfriend’s vagina. I don’t think there was any sperm out from my penis, and I did not try to put it into her vagina. So, I want to know: is there any possibility of her becoming pregnant? Answer: The problem is that when a man is…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[205,203],"class_list":["post-35691","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-lewdness","tag-sexual-touching"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":4787,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-a-girl-get-pregnant-before-her-first-period\/","url_meta":{"origin":35691,"position":0},"title":"Can a girl get pregnant before her first period?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"April 22, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Hi! I was wondering if it is possible for a girl to become pregnant before menarche (before she has her first period). My friend and I were fooling around and I fingered her, but I am curious. I realized that she has really minimal pubic hair and underarm hair.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "Answer"","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":16809,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/if-you-take-off-a-condom-and-put-a-new-one-on-what-are-the-chances-that-she-will-get-pregnant\/","url_meta":{"origin":35691,"position":1},"title":"If you take off a condom and put a new one on what are the chances that she will get pregnant?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"November 10, 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: If you take off a condom and put a new one on what are the chances that she will get pregnant? Thanks. Answer: I must assume that since you are concerned about pregnancy that you are engaging in sex with a woman to whom you are not married. Regardless\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "Answer"","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":10038,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-you-get-pregnant-from-oral-sex\/","url_meta":{"origin":35691,"position":2},"title":"Can you get pregnant from oral sex?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"May 29, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: About a week ago I was fooling around with this boy and I gave him oral sex and swallowed his ejaculation, then we kissed and he gave me oral sex. Is there a possibility that his sperm could have traveled from my mouth to his and then into my\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "Answer"","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":27412,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/could-i-have-gotten-my-girlfriend-pregnant\/","url_meta":{"origin":35691,"position":3},"title":"Could I have gotten my girlfriend pregnant?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"May 12, 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Hi. I want to ask you an urgent question. I'll get straight to the point: today my girlfriend and I had sex. I didn't put my penis in her vagina, but I ejaculated in my pants and some sperm got into my finger. I wiped it with a cloth,\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "Answer"","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":29750,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/my-boyfriend-did-something-he-wasnt-supposed-to-and-now-im-afraid-i-might-get-pregnant-what-can-i-take-to-avoid-it\/","url_meta":{"origin":35691,"position":4},"title":"My boyfriend did something he wasn’t supposed to and now I’m afraid I might get pregnant. What can I take to avoid it?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"October 30, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Hi I really need urgent help from you. Actually, to tell you the truth, what happened is that my guy wasn't in his senses, and he ended up doing something wrong which he wasn't supposed to do. I don't want to get pregnant or anything. Neither can I go\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "Answer"","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":4774,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/if-he-didnt-go-all-the-way-could-i-still-get-pregnant\/","url_meta":{"origin":35691,"position":5},"title":"If he didn’t go all the way, could I still get pregnant?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"April 19, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: My boyfriend and I were about to have sex for the first time, but I changed my mind because I realized I wasn't ready and plus he wasn't wearing a condom! Since it was my first time and because it hurt too much he didn't really go all the\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "Answer"","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35691","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35691"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35691\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Response:<\/h2>\n