{"id":34691,"date":"2012-09-10T19:56:00","date_gmt":"2012-09-11T00:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=34691"},"modified":"2021-04-28T19:59:55","modified_gmt":"2021-04-29T00:59:55","slug":"is-masturbating-okay-if-you-are-thinking-about-your-husband-only","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-masturbating-okay-if-you-are-thinking-about-your-husband-only\/","title":{"rendered":"Is masturbating okay if you are thinking about your husband only?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Is masturbating okay if you are\u00a0thinking about\u00a0your husband\u00a0<em>only<\/em>?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>I think he would enjoy it more if you shared sex with him.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>True, but what if he is not available? Does the Bible speak against it?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>No. There is nothing stated against it in the Scriptures, so long as it is not used as a way of avoiding sex with your spouse (I Corinthians 7:2-5).<\/p>\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Thank you! I will try to avoid doing that. You are right, it is much better together. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Is masturbating okay if you are\u00a0thinking about\u00a0your husband\u00a0only? Answer: I think he would enjoy it more if you shared sex with him. Question: True, but what if he is not available? Does the Bible speak against it? Answer: No. There is nothing stated against it in the Scriptures, so long as it is not&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[171],"class_list":["post-34691","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-masturbation"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":7774,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/will-masturbating-when-single-cause-harm-later-when-married\/","url_meta":{"origin":34691,"position":0},"title":"Will masturbating when single cause harm later when married?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"November 11, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Is masturbating unsafe? 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