I need some advice. My husband and I have been married for three years. We have not had sex within our marriage. I am angry. I beg for him to love me but he won’t. He will find time to do everything under the sun but to make time for us in that way. Also, every single weekend we are at his family’s house and it drives me nuts. I have no family or close friends because I moved out of state to be with him. I have tried everything, such as talking to him about what bothers me, which only leads us to argue. I am completely fed up and about to call it quits. Please say a prayer for me. I really love my husband, but I am not sure he even loves me in that way anymore.<\/p>\n\t
For a man to not be interested in sex would lead to the conclusion that something is wrong with him physically or that he is finding another way of relieving the build-up of semen that every man experiences. But what is missing from your note is any of his explanations. I’m left to conclude that since you say you discuss these matters and end up arguing with him that you don’t accept whatever reason he is offering. That would typically mean that you aren’t really listening to what he is saying.<\/p>\n
Beyond that, I haven’t a clue as to what is going on and cannot, therefore, offer advice that might lead to a solution.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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