{"id":33088,"date":"2012-06-04T21:14:00","date_gmt":"2012-06-05T02:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=33088"},"modified":"2021-03-07T21:19:34","modified_gmt":"2021-03-08T03:19:34","slug":"your-article-on-bitterness-gave-me-a-new-perspective","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/your-article-on-bitterness-gave-me-a-new-perspective\/","title":{"rendered":"Your article on bitterness gave me a new perspective"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>My kids left for college. I have been a single mother for over a decade, and I realized I cannot get rid of the bitterness.\u00a0 I read\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/overcoming-bitterness\/\">the article on bitterness<\/a>, and I have a different perception that will help me to bring sweetness to my life.<\/p>\n<p>Although I live a long way from you, I will continue reading your articles.<\/p>\n<p>God Bless You always,<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>I&#8217;m glad to hear the articles are helping you.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: My kids left for college. I have been a single mother for over a decade, and I realized I cannot get rid of the bitterness.\u00a0 I read\u00a0the article on bitterness, and I have a different perception that will help me to bring sweetness to my life. Although I live a long way from you,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[127,888],"class_list":["post-33088","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-about-this-site","tag-bitterness"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":35852,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/thank-you-for-the-article-overcoming-bitterness\/","url_meta":{"origin":33088,"position":0},"title":"Thank you for the article &#8220;Overcoming Bitterness&#8221;","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"June 17, 2021","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Good Morning Sir, I read the article by Lawrence Kelley on Overcoming Bitterness and I read the 3 points on identifying the characteristics of bitterness to our Wednesday Night Bible study class. Our minister was so touched by this that he wants to post a copy on our bulletin\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":62524,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/the-gall-of-bitterness\/","url_meta":{"origin":33088,"position":1},"title":"The Gall of Bitterness","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"February 9, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"by Jeffrey W. Hamilton Reading: Acts 8:14-24 \u00a0 I.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Hebrews 12:14-15 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0A.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Bitterness is \u201ccharacterized by animosity; harshly reproachful, caustic, disagreeable; to have a \u2018sour\u2019 disposition toward others over things that happened, whether real or imagined.\u201d \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0B.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Few people want to be bitter, but many slide into it over the years. II.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Causes of\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Audio&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Audio","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/audio\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":88422,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/root-of-bitterness\/","url_meta":{"origin":33088,"position":2},"title":"Root of Bitterness","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"July 4, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"by Terry Wane Benton \"Pursue peace with all men...lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled\" (Hebrews 12:14-15). Negative experiences must be kept in perspective. 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