Love is …\u00a0<\/a>” The choice made was that you two are not suitable as marriage partners. Therefore, the practical thing to do is accept that fact and find a man who is suitable. Having a good man at your side will make you realize that you are glad you did not marry the other man.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Question: Hi, I’ve just broken up with my boyfriend who isn’t a believer in Christ and it had already been several months. I can’t seem to forget him even though I know he is not the one for me. I can sense the Lord telling me he is not the one. 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