Is foreplay wrong if it doesn’t lead to sex?<\/a>\u00a0Your fiance is quite capable of relieving himself without your involvement. That you intend to get married is not the same as being married.<\/p>\n\tResponse:<\/h2>\n
Thank you so much for your response and boldness in the Lord.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Question: Praise the Lord. I read your correspondence regarding\u00a0oral sex\u00a0and found it to be very enlightening. Does this reasoning also apply to a woman relieving her fianc\u00e9 using masturbation on him until they marry? 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