{"id":31361,"date":"2012-01-17T21:11:00","date_gmt":"2012-01-18T03:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=31361"},"modified":"2021-01-29T21:13:25","modified_gmt":"2021-01-30T03:13:25","slug":"how-can-it-be-wrong-for-a-divorced-couple-to-have-sex-since-god-doesnt-recognize-their-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-can-it-be-wrong-for-a-divorced-couple-to-have-sex-since-god-doesnt-recognize-their-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"How can it be wrong for a divorced couple to have sex since God doesn&#8217;t recognize their divorce?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Hello please enlighten me further: God does not recognize divorce, only our court systems. God sees it still as one flesh under the arranged covenant. But I am confused. What&#8217;s the consequence of sexual activity between the husband and wife under God&#8217;s arrangement? Surely this is not deemed fornication, having sex before marriage, since God sees the couple still married as if the divorce didn&#8217;t exist. I&#8217;m interested in your response.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks in advance. By the way, I am going through a divorce, which is out of my control. It&#8217;s difficult. She left me, not me her. No adultery to my knowledge, just not happy I guess after a very long marriage. I am presently writing my response to the courts to dismiss, which is unlikely in today&#8217;s courts run by the devil, even though they are placed by God.<\/p>\n<p>Cheers<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>God does not release a person from his covenant just because a divorce is sought and granted from the state. But even when a person goes against God&#8217;s laws and divorces his spouse, he is still unmarried. &#8220;<em>Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. But even if she does depart, let her\u00a0<strong>remain unmarried<\/strong>\u00a0or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife<\/em>&#8221; (I Corinthians 7:10-11). Sex is to take place in marriage (Hebrews 13:4). Therefore a divorced couple is not to have sex until they remarry.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Hello please enlighten me further: God does not recognize divorce, only our court systems. God sees it still as one flesh under the arranged covenant. But I am confused. What&#8217;s the consequence of sexual activity between the husband and wife under God&#8217;s arrangement? Surely this is not deemed fornication, having sex before marriage, since&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[167],"class_list":["post-31361","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-divorce"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":40277,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/if-a-couple-divorce-and-then-reconcile-do-they-need-to-remarry\/","url_meta":{"origin":31361,"position":0},"title":"If a couple divorce, and then reconcile, do they need to remarry?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 16, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: A married couple divorces, within a short time they reconcile, (in God's eyes the wife would have been wrong, she repented and made it right with God and the church). 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