I found a girl I want to marry. My pastor’s wife has told the girl that I am her husband. Now he told me not to marry her because she will fail me spiritually. We are preparing for our marriage. I don’t know what to do. She is born again.<\/p>\n\t
Question: I found a girl I want to marry. My pastor’s wife has told the girl that I am her husband. Now he told me not to marry her because she will fail me spiritually. We are preparing for our marriage. I don’t know what to do. She is born again. 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