{"id":28126,"date":"2011-07-17T18:48:00","date_gmt":"2011-07-17T23:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=28126"},"modified":"2020-12-03T18:50:22","modified_gmt":"2020-12-04T00:50:22","slug":"if-people-are-in-a-wrongful-marriage-should-they-divorce-in-order-to-repent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/if-people-are-in-a-wrongful-marriage-should-they-divorce-in-order-to-repent\/","title":{"rendered":"If people are in a wrongful marriage, should they divorce in order to repent?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>I read your article, and I am asking if the people in this wrongful marriage with children should get a divorce in order to repent and go to Heaven?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? Certainly not! How shall we who died to sin live any longer in it?<\/em>&#8221; (Romans 6:1-2).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>If a relationship is sinful, continuing it doesn&#8217;t change it to something right. The fact that someone compounded the problem by bringing innocent children into the middle of it doesn&#8217;t change the morality of the relationship either. People have children outside of wedlock constantly these days, the presence of children doesn&#8217;t excuse the fornication.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I read your article, and I am asking if the people in this wrongful marriage with children should get a divorce in order to repent and go to Heaven? Answer: &#8220;What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? Certainly not! How shall we who died to sin live&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[167],"class_list":["post-28126","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-divorce"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":25491,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-it-wrong-to-break-up-a-wrongful-second-marriage\/","url_meta":{"origin":28126,"position":0},"title":"Is it wrong to break up a wrongful second marriage?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"January 10, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: If a non-Christian divorces his wife for reasons other than marital unfaithfulness, then remarries, then joins the Church, should his second marriage be broken up? 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