{"id":27381,"date":"2011-05-08T18:00:00","date_gmt":"2011-05-08T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=27381"},"modified":"2020-11-12T18:04:08","modified_gmt":"2020-11-13T00:04:08","slug":"you-were-wrong-about-her","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/you-were-wrong-about-her\/","title":{"rendered":"You were wrong about her"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>I read the article about\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/why-is-my-husband-so-uncaring\/\">the women with the dryer<\/a>. You were so wrong about her. I understood what she was saying and you stuck up for the husband. You&#8217;re a women basher. Wow, I can&#8217;t believe you were so mean to her.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>Let&#8217;s see:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Pointless name calling<\/li>\n<li>Casual reading overlooked the two statements that I can only address the person who wrote. Since the husband did not write, it is not profitable to tell the woman what her husband needs to do to improve.<\/li>\n<li>A claim that you understood better, but unsupported by any information<\/li>\n<li>An opinion that I was being mean by giving requested advice on how to improve.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I understand you don&#8217;t like the answer, but you only gave empty grumblings.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another<\/em>&#8221; (Romans 14:19).<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<em>Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers<\/em>&#8221; (Ephesians 4:29).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I read the article about\u00a0the women with the dryer. You were so wrong about her. I understood what she was saying and you stuck up for the husband. You&#8217;re a women basher. Wow, I can&#8217;t believe you were so mean to her. Answer: Let&#8217;s see: Pointless name calling Casual reading overlooked the two statements&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[127],"class_list":["post-27381","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-about-this-site"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":16947,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-phone-sex-grounds-for-a-divorce\/","url_meta":{"origin":27381,"position":0},"title":"Is phone sex grounds for a divorce?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"December 4, 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I\u00a0have recently divorced my husband for sexual immorality and abuse.\u00a0 He watched pornography, read Playboy magazines, is a nudist around other nude men and women, and also paid several times to have phone sex with\u00a0real women.\u00a0These actions have been going on for about ten years or more. 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