{"id":25257,"date":"2010-12-14T16:57:00","date_gmt":"2010-12-14T22:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=25257"},"modified":"2020-08-25T16:59:31","modified_gmt":"2020-08-25T21:59:31","slug":"who-will-be-held-accountable-for-committing-adultery-a-single-woman-or-a-married-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/who-will-be-held-accountable-for-committing-adultery-a-single-woman-or-a-married-man\/","title":{"rendered":"Who will be held accountable for committing adultery? A single woman or a married man?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Who will be held accountable for committing adultery? A single woman or a married man?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>Adultery is when a married person has sex with someone to whom he or she is not married. The act is called adultery, whether the married person is having sex with another married person or with a single person.<\/p>\n<p>Fornication is a broader term that simply means having sex with someone to whom you are not married. When used alone, it can include the act of adultery. When used in a list where adultery is also mentioned, then fornication is seen as sex between two unmarried people.<\/p>\n<p>When both parties consent to sex with someone to whom they are not married, then both parties are guilty of the sin. For example, in the Old Law, &#8220;<em>The man who commits adultery with another man&#8217;s wife, he who commits adultery with his neighbor&#8217;s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress, shall surely be put to death<\/em>&#8221; (Leviticus 20:10), it did not matter whether the man was married or single. The fact that he was having sex with a married woman who was not his wife made both him an adulterer and her an adulteress.<\/p>\n<p>Interestingly, the Scriptures teach that consensual sexual sins are not sins against another person, but a sin against himself. &#8220;<em>Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body<\/em>&#8221; (I Corinthians 6:18).<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve been involved in adultery, don&#8217;t look for ways to excuse what you have done. &#8220;<em>This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth, and says, &#8216;I have done no wickedness&#8217;<\/em>&#8221; (Proverbs 30:20). Such callousness doesn&#8217;t lead a person to heaven.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Who will be held accountable for committing adultery? A single woman or a married man? Answer: Adultery is when a married person has sex with someone to whom he or she is not married. The act is called adultery, whether the married person is having sex with another married person or with a single&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[66,1572],"class_list":["post-25257","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-adultery","tag-fornication"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":40300,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/what-is-the-difference-between-adultery-and-fornication\/","url_meta":{"origin":25257,"position":0},"title":"What is the difference between adultery and fornication?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 17, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I was just wondering: I think that if someone sleeps with a married person but they are not married, they now to are committing adultery?\u00a0 And if that person, who was not married, sleeps with someone else later in life, who is not married, does that new person commit\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":28224,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-a-person-who-married-a-person-who-had-no-right-to-marry-divorce-and-marry-someone-else\/","url_meta":{"origin":25257,"position":1},"title":"Can a person who married a person who had no right to marry, divorce, and marry someone else?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"July 28, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: If a man marries a woman who was not supposed to remarry because she and her husband had committed adultery, can the man in the second marriage divorce her because of her continued adulteries during the second marriage and be able to marry again? 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If so, does that mean the passage\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":23529,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/does-past-adultery-prevent-a-person-from-getting-married\/","url_meta":{"origin":25257,"position":3},"title":"Does past adultery prevent a person from getting married?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"July 1, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Hello brother, I have been single for many years, and I have now found someone in the church I\u2019m wanting to marry. But in my past, I was not very faithful to God in my daily living. In my past, I slept with someone who may have been married\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":27682,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-i-remarry-if-i-have-committed-adultery-with-my-first-husband\/","url_meta":{"origin":25257,"position":4},"title":"Can I remarry if I have committed adultery with my first husband?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"June 2, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Can I remarry if I have committed adultery with my first husband, and if not, what should I do to get it right with God? 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