Without a doubt, her son is being rude to the members of the church who wish to honor her memory. However, there is no authority for the church to conduct a funeral, that is a family responsibility. If the family wishes to be alone in their grief, there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n
If the members of the church wish to gather to remember their sister, they can do so on their own.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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