{"id":21411,"date":"2010-01-01T22:06:00","date_gmt":"2010-01-02T04:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=21411"},"modified":"2026-06-12T21:11:12","modified_gmt":"2026-06-13T02:11:12","slug":"i-lied-in-my-earlier-note-to-satisfy-a-spanking-fetish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/i-lied-in-my-earlier-note-to-satisfy-a-spanking-fetish\/","title":{"rendered":"I lied in my earlier note to satisfy a spanking fetish"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>The\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-can-you-spank-when-the-child-refuses-to-submit-to-a-spanking\/\">following email conversation was made up<\/a> on my part. I have had a fetish for spanking since I was 4 years old, as far as I can remember. I recently had a memory restored to me of being spanked at 1 1\/2 years old. I established some dysfunctional associations with spanking and my sexuality, and have struggled with them since. I now see the magnitude of damage it has caused me, and I have caused as a result. I am so sorry. I now see how damaging inflicting any form of hurt upon another causes people in many facets of life, including anything from spanking to war, and I believe the two are related. I firmly believe there are many more loving ways of discipline and guidance, and if one ever feels the need to &#8216;correct&#8217; another&#8217;s behavior, the mirror is a much more appropriate place to turn to than a paddle. Jesus spoke of tolerance, kindness, and forgiveness. He was far from punishing (aside from throwing a few tables over at the temple).\u00a0 Mathew 18:6 says it well.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I plead with you to remove my perverted words from your site. I am so sorry for misleading you and your readers and spreading my poison in your direction, and I pray nobody has been harmed or hurt as a result.<\/p>\n<p>May you have a wonderful and loving New Year.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>When it comes to issues involving spanking, I get more fraudulent messages than real ones. Sometimes, I let matters play out to see what comes of it. When possible, if there are usable parts to a note that I suspect aren&#8217;t truthful, I will respond simply because it makes a good teaching situation. The answers I gave were accurate to the information provided. I won&#8217;t be removing the answers. I don&#8217;t keep records of who sent what, so I can&#8217;t even verify your claim that you provided the original question.<\/p>\n<p>Frankly, multiple things in this note cause me to suspect that what is being claimed is not accurate either.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Though there was an exchange of about four emails, the sender did not know my name.<\/li>\n<li>The referenced note has been posted for years.<\/li>\n<li>Claims of recovered memory were debunked decades ago in psychology.<\/li>\n<li>The mention of a connection between spanking and war tells me the person is among the anti-spanking crowd. The truth is that spanking does not cause wars.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Therefore, I conclude the person is lying and is trying to get some of the effective teaching on this website removed.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: The\u00a0following email conversation was made up on my part. I have had a fetish for spanking since I was 4 years old, as far as I can remember. I recently had a memory restored to me of being spanked at 1 1\/2 years old. I established some dysfunctional associations with spanking and my sexuality,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[760,392,108],"class_list":["post-21411","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-fetish","tag-lying","tag-spanking"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":35682,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-do-i-get-freedom-from-a-spanking-fetish\/","url_meta":{"origin":21411,"position":0},"title":"How do I get freedom from a spanking fetish?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"November 5, 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Dear Sir, I realize that spanking children during childhood establish a spanking fetish in them. I have this problem. On the Internet, I know many girls and boys who masturbate after being spanked by their parents. They also masturbate when they see their parents spank their brothers. I know\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":7652,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/what-does-the-bible-say-about-having-a-fetish\/","url_meta":{"origin":21411,"position":1},"title":"What does the Bible say about having a fetish?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"October 28, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I have a spanking fetish I'm a 24-year-old male that has a spanking fetish. How do I stop myself? What do the Scriptures say about them? Is it normal to have a spanking fetish? Answer: It is interesting that you used the word fetish. 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