How to Become a Christian<\/a>. In the process of becoming a Christian, your past sins are removed. If you are a Christian then you are required to repent of your sins, that is, you have to change both your behavior to stop sinning and the attitude that allowed you to sin (II Corinthians 7:10-11). You are also required to confess your sin to God (I John 1:9).<\/p>\nSins always have consequences, but disagreements between you and your wife are not a direct result of your fornication. All couples have disagreements. One aspect of becoming one is learning how to solve disagreements. Don’t blame your current problems on your past mistakes. Solve each problem as they arise.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Question: Hi, I have a question, I had a girlfriend before marriage and we had sex. I married the same girl with whom I had sex. Will it be considered as fornication, adultery, or sin in God’s eyes? I and my wife know we both are guilty of what happened before marriage. 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