You helped me earlier\u00a0with a problem I was having at work. (Thanks again)<\/p>\n
So I was wondering if I could ask you to\u00a0assist me with another problem that has recently\u00a0come up.<\/p>\n
I divorced my husband due to his\u00a0adultery.\u00a0 He remarried and now he and his new wife have a son.\u00a0 My ex-husband has been communicating, through our daughter, that he has made a mistake to divorce me.\u00a0 He wants to divorce his current wife in order to pursue a relationship with me.\u00a0 My ex-husband is aware that I do not want to have any contact or communication with him.<\/p>\n
My mother recently told me that even though I divorced this man, according to the gospel I can not marry another man so why not take him up on his offer. I should forgive him, pray about it then remarry him.<\/p>\n
Is she crazy or right?<\/p>\n\t
Your mother doesn’t know her scriptures well. Jesus stated, “And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery<\/em>” (Matthew 19:9). Implied in this statement is that the one not guilty of adultery is free to remarry if they so choose. Since your ex-husband was the one guilty of adultery, he did not have the right to marry again. He is currently living in adultery with another woman.<\/p>\n Whether you decide to remarry him, someone else, or remain single is completely up to you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Question: You helped me earlier\u00a0with a problem I was having at work. (Thanks again) So I was wondering if I could ask you to\u00a0assist me with another problem that has recently\u00a0come up. I divorced my husband due to his\u00a0adultery.\u00a0 He remarried and now he and his new wife have a son.\u00a0 My ex-husband has been…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[167],"class_list":["post-20507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-divorce"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":43598,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/i-left-an-abusive-marriage-can-i-date-and-remarry\/","url_meta":{"origin":20507,"position":0},"title":"I left an abusive marriage. 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