My husband and I recently got divorced we have two children together. We still love each other very much and are still sleeping together. Is it a sin to sleep with your ex-husband?<\/p>\n\t
It seems to me you are asking the wrong question. I’m wondering why you aren’t marrying the man you claim to love and providing a stable home for your two children in which to grow up.<\/p>\n
But you are asking if it is wrong to have sex with a man with whom you have no covenant of commitment. The answer to that is, “Yes, it is a sin.” So work out your differences and be reconciled to your husband. “Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife<\/em>” (I Corinthians 7:10-11).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Question: My husband and I recently got divorced we have two children together. We still love each other very much and are still sleeping together. Is it a sin to sleep with your ex-husband? Answer: It seems to me you are asking the wrong question. I’m wondering why you aren’t marrying the man you claim…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[167],"class_list":["post-19747","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-divorce"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":23781,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-i-have-sex-with-my-ex-husband-before-our-reconciliation\/","url_meta":{"origin":19747,"position":0},"title":"Can I have sex with my ex-husband before our reconciliation?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"June 14, 2010","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: My husband divorced me, but not for biblical reasons. 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