{"id":16719,"date":"2008-10-31T20:31:00","date_gmt":"2008-11-01T01:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=16719"},"modified":"2019-12-10T20:51:46","modified_gmt":"2019-12-11T02:51:46","slug":"do-you-have-other-material-on-an-elders-children-being-faithful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/do-you-have-other-material-on-an-elders-children-being-faithful\/","title":{"rendered":"Do you have other material on an elder&#8217;s children being faithful?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>I just read your article on faithful children per Titus 1:6 and I must say I appreciate the way you handled it. I am in my first full-time work after graduating from preaching school and this question has come up. As if by providence we began our study of 1 &amp; 2 Timothy, Titus about one month after I started here. In school, we were taught that when the children left the home the potential elder was not responsible for his children. But as I began to study, digging deep into God&#8217;s word I had to change my mind on that position. God&#8217;s word has to have the final say in all matters concerning life and the church. So now, I firmly hold that the potential elder&#8217;s children must be faithful members of the church in order for him to qualified.<\/p>\n<p>Can you give me any other pointers on this subject that were not covered in the article &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/does-faithful-children-mean-faithful-to-god-or-faithful-to-the-parent\/\">When Paul speaks of &#8220;faithful children&#8221; in Titus 1:6, did he mean faithful to God or faithful to the parent?<\/a>&#8221; I have read and studied many books, writers, commentaries, but they all fail at this point. Any help you could give would be greatly appreciated.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>I have a few, shorter answers to related questions on the same topic:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/must-an-elder-have-faithful-children\/\">Must an elder have faithful children?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/does-an-elder-need-to-step-down-if-one-of-his-children-falls-away\/\">Does an elder need to step down if one of his children falls away?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I recommend Dale Smelser&#8217;s booklet, &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/the-rule-of-elders-2\/\">The Rule of Elders<\/a>,&#8221; as a good study regarding the duties of an elder.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m glad you found the material useful and if I can be of further service, please let me know.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I just read your article on faithful children per Titus 1:6 and I must say I appreciate the way you handled it. I am in my first full-time work after graduating from preaching school and this question has come up. As if by providence we began our study of 1 &amp; 2 Timothy, Titus&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[123],"class_list":["post-16719","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-elders"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2099,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/does-faithful-children-mean-faithful-to-god-or-faithful-to-the-parent\/","url_meta":{"origin":16719,"position":0},"title":"Does &#8220;faithful children&#8221; mean faithful to God or faithful to the parent?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"January 22, 2005","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: When Paul speaks of \"faithful children\" in\u00a0Titus 1:6, did he mean faithful to God or faithful to the parent? Answer: Terms in the Bible are sometimes difficult to translate because common words are borrowed and used in ways where the common word takes on a deeper meaning than it\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":9229,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/does-an-elder-need-to-step-down-if-one-of-his-children-falls-away\/","url_meta":{"origin":16719,"position":1},"title":"Does an elder need to step down if one of his children falls away?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"April 2, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: My question pertains to elders and having believing children. If when they, believing children of an elder, leave home and happen to fall away from the church should the elder step down? Or does this fall under the example aspect and he should step down because of that? Another\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":34903,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/you-seem-to-have-two-articles-giving-two-different-positions-on-whether-an-elders-unfaithful-child-makes-him-disqualified-which-is-it\/","url_meta":{"origin":16719,"position":2},"title":"You seem to have two articles giving two different positions on whether an elder&#8217;s unfaithful child makes him disqualified. Which is it?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 21, 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I've been restudying the issue of elder's children who fall away. The La Vista website has an article \"The Elder and His Children\" by Brett Hogland that concludes that an elder whose children leave the Lord would still be qualified to serve, and another article, \"Does an elder need\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":1494,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/must-an-elder-have-faithful-children\/","url_meta":{"origin":16719,"position":3},"title":"Must an elder have faithful children?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"June 19, 2004","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Is it necessary for an elder to have children faithful in the church? If yes, then how many? Answer: \"Having children who believe, not accused of dissipation or rebellion\" (Titus 1:6). \"He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity\"\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":57292,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/the-elders-children\/","url_meta":{"origin":16719,"position":4},"title":"The Elder&#8217;s Children","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"December 24, 2022","format":false,"excerpt":"by Jerry C. Ray The Gospel Guardian, 26 November 1964 In the study of the qualifications for elders, one of the most frequently asked questions is regarding the \"children\" (I Timothy 3:4; Titus 1:6). Does the expression necessitate a plurality, or does it mean that a man is qualified with\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Article&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Article","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/article\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":91021,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-do-you-deal-with-an-elders-wifes-gossiping\/","url_meta":{"origin":16719,"position":5},"title":"How do you deal with an elder&#8217;s wife&#8217;s gossiping?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"October 4, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Do the wives of the elders have any authority over the other women of the congregation? Are there qualifications for the wife of an elder? 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