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Would I be committing adultery again?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>If he is being divorced by his wife because of the adultery he committed, no you cannot marry the man without also committing adultery. &#8220;<em>But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery<\/em>&#8221; (Matthew 5:32).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I have committed adultery with a married man and now their marriage is breaking. This man and I have realized our mistakes and we ask pardon from God daily. But he is getting divorced. Is it right for me to marry him? Would I be committing adultery again? 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