{"id":13701,"date":"2008-01-25T17:17:12","date_gmt":"2008-01-25T23:17:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=13701"},"modified":"2021-01-11T10:21:50","modified_gmt":"2021-01-11T16:21:50","slug":"how-do-we-undo-the-bad-parenting-we-did-in-the-past","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-do-we-undo-the-bad-parenting-we-did-in-the-past\/","title":{"rendered":"How do we undo the bad parenting we did in the past?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>My 10-year-old son has had a hard past. We, his parents, fought the first seven years of marriage; however, now we are in the process of planting new godly seeds into him. But now we are having to deal with the seeds of disobedience, disrespect, and complaining. We want to uproot the bad seeds and plant and nourish good seeds of obedience, respect, and gratefulness.<\/p>\n<p>I thank you in advance for your help.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>Consistency is the key. Both consistency in your expectations of his doing what is right and your own consistency in setting a good example of how to properly behave. Though you are starting a bit late, read through all the information on raising children &#8212; even for the years that before your son&#8217;s age &#8212; to see the things you need to do. See:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/bible-studies\/raising-godly-children-in-a-wicked-world\/\">Raising Godly Children in a Wicked World<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: My 10-year-old son has had a hard past. We, his parents, fought the first seven years of marriage; however, now we are in the process of planting new godly seeds into him. But now we are having to deal with the seeds of disobedience, disrespect, and complaining. We want to uproot the bad seeds&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[665,29],"class_list":["post-13701","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-child-rearing","tag-parenting"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":58545,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/parents-consistency-is-a-key\/","url_meta":{"origin":13701,"position":0},"title":"Parents: Consistency is a Key!","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"January 28, 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"by Greg Gwin All godly parents are concerned about bringing up their children to be good, God-fearing people. 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So I am hoping that did the\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":92089,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-it-still-possible-to-raise-godly-children\/","url_meta":{"origin":13701,"position":2},"title":"Is It Still Possible to Raise Godly Children?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"November 13, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"by Darrell Smelser via\u00a0InLight Media Marriage is hard on its own. Parenting is a tough job in and of itself. However, with the world being so divided and complex, cultivating a godly family feels even more challenging these days. 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We decided to make it a small group of teens, and she was mortified at the idea of us\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":92961,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/fathers-raising-godly-children\/","url_meta":{"origin":13701,"position":4},"title":"Fathers Raising Godly Children","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"December 31, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"by Chad Carter Over the years - now having passed 62 of them - I've observed that the men who have raised godly children, though differing widely in personality and disposition, tend to share many of the same traits and practices. 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