{"id":10946,"date":"2007-08-05T10:51:44","date_gmt":"2007-08-05T15:51:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=10946"},"modified":"2019-09-30T10:53:15","modified_gmt":"2019-09-30T15:53:15","slug":"should-i-get-married-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/should-i-get-married-now\/","title":{"rendered":"Should I get married now?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>I&#8217;m 20 years old Ethiopian boy. My question is: is it advisable if I married right now?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers<\/em>&#8221; (Hebrews 13:4).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Since you are above the minimum age of 18 required in your country, and assuming that you prepared for handling the responsibilities of supporting a family (I Timothy 5:8), then I don&#8217;t know a reason why you shouldn&#8217;t. But then, you haven&#8217;t told me anything about your situation.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>But if they don&#8217;t have self-control, let them marry. For it&#8217;s better to marry than to burn<\/em>&#8221; (I Corinthians 7:9).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I&#8217;m 20 years old Ethiopian boy. My question is: is it advisable if I married right now? Answer: &#8220;Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers&#8221; (Hebrews 13:4). Since you are above the minimum age of 18 required in&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[64],"class_list":["post-10946","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-marriage"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":34890,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/i-think-the-government-is-corrupt-so-can-i-get-married-without-the-government-being-involved\/","url_meta":{"origin":10946,"position":0},"title":"I think the government is corrupt, so can I get married without the government being involved?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 20, 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Hello, My girlfriend and I would like to marry outside of the state due to the condition of the corruption and anti-God position of the government and states. 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