{"id":4580,"date":"2019-05-22T21:20:19","date_gmt":"2019-05-23T02:20:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?page_id=4580"},"modified":"2020-03-16T11:38:23","modified_gmt":"2020-03-16T16:38:23","slug":"mature-love","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/bible-studies\/the-greatest-love-song-written-a-study-of-the-song-of-solomon\/mature-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Mature Love"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t<h2 align=\"center\">Chapter 12<\/h2>\n<h1>Mature Love<\/h1>\n<p>Time continues to advance and our lovers have matured. Once again we are shown a scene from their life when they are having intercourse.<\/p>\n<blockquote>7\u00a0<sup>1<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201cHow beautiful are your feet in sandals,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0O prince\u2019s daughter!<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0The curves of your hips are like jewels,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0The work of the hands of an artist.\n<sup>2<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201cYour navel is\u00a0<i>like<\/i>\u00a0a round goblet<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Which never lacks mixed wine;<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Your belly is like a heap of wheat<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Fenced about with lilies.\n<sup>3<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201cYour two breasts are like two fawns,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Twins of a gazelle.\n<sup>4<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201cYour neck is like a tower of ivory,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Your eyes\u00a0<i>like<\/i>\u00a0the pools in Heshbon<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0By the gate of Bath-rabbim;<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Your nose is like the tower of Lebanon,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Which faces toward Damascus.\n<sup>5<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201cYour head crowns you like Carmel,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0And the flowing locks of your head are like purple threads;<br \/>\n<i>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0The<\/i>\u00a0king is captivated by\u00a0<i>your<\/i>\u00a0tresses.\n<sup>6<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201cHow beautiful and how delightful you are,<br \/>\n<i>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0My<\/i>\u00a0love, with\u00a0<i>all<\/i>\u00a0your charms!\n<sup>7<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201cYour stature is like a palm tree,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0And your breasts are\u00a0<i>like its<\/i>\u00a0clusters.\n<sup>8<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201cI said, \u2018I will climb the palm tree,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I will take hold of its fruit stalks.\u2019<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Oh, may your breasts be like clusters of the vine,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0And the fragrance of your breath like apples,\n<p><sup>9<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0And your mouth like the best wine!\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div id=\"attachment_4474\" style=\"width: 284px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/carmelmountain.gif.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4474\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/carmelmountain.gif.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"274\" height=\"244\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4474\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">View from Mount Carmel<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_4527\" style=\"width: 146px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/wheatbundle.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4527\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/wheatbundle.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"136\" height=\"165\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4527\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Bundle of Wheat<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Even after years of becoming familiar with each other, nothing is rushed in their enjoyment of each other\u2019s bodies. As Solomon describes each intimate detail of her body, we can see him in our minds touching and caressing each captivating portion of her. This time Solomon starts at her feet and moves upwards. She has the beautiful feet of a princess. Her thighs and hip are precisely formed as if carved by a jeweler. Her navel brings him satisfaction (perhaps as he tickles it with his tongue). Her waist is narrow and white, like a bundle of wheat tied with lilies. Her breasts are soft, matched, and desirable to be stroked. Her neck is white and stately, showing dignity in character. Her eyes are gentle pools \u2013 deep, dark, and inviting. Her nose is stately. Her head is as majestic as a mountain. Purple is the color of royalty, so Solomon is saying her hair is royal. As he weaves his fingers through her hair, he pretends to be caught, claiming that he has been taken captive by her hair.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4482\" style=\"width: 146px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/datepalmtree.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4482\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/datepalmtree.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"136\" height=\"192\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4482\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Date Palm Tree<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_4493\" style=\"width: 146px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/grapeclusters.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4493\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/grapeclusters.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"136\" height=\"198\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4493\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Grape Clusters<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Solomon has listed ten features that describe how beautiful, delightful, and charming is his wife. Ten is another special number among the Hebrews. It represents things that are complete. Hence Solomon is implying that nothing is lacking in his wife.<\/p>\n<p>Notice that his description is more sensual than on the night of their wedding. They are familiar with each other and are not embarrassed to enjoy any part of each other. They also play around more in their lovemaking. Solomon compares his wife to a palm tree with her breast being ripe fruit waiting to be picked. He starts down at her feet and slides up her body, taking time to enjoy the tenderness of her breasts, the fragrance of her breath, and the intoxicating kisses from her lips.<\/p>\n<blockquote><sup>9<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0It goes\u00a0<i>down<\/i>\u00a0smoothly for my beloved,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Flowing gently\u00a0<i>through<\/i> the lips of those who fall asleep.<\/blockquote>\n<p>Taking up the imagery of drinking, Shulammith describes the climax of their lovemaking. They join together smoothly. This is not the mad passionate love of the young, but the smooth practiced responses of two who have spent their lives together. As the scene fades we find they have fallen asleep together while still joined as one.<\/p>\n<h3>Questions:<\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li>How is mature sex different from newlywed sex?<\/li>\n<li>What is different in Solomon\u2019s description here than his description on their wedding night? What is similar?<\/li>\n<li>Are only young people truly able to enjoy sex?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/bible-studies\/the-greatest-love-song-written-a-study-of-the-song-of-solomon\/the-art-of-repairing-a-broken-relationship\/\" target=\"_self\" role=\"button\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tPrior Lesson\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/bible-studies\/the-greatest-love-song-written-a-study-of-the-song-of-solomon\/\" target=\"_self\" role=\"button\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThe Greatest Love Song Written\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/bible-studies\/the-greatest-love-song-written-a-study-of-the-song-of-solomon\/innovative-styles\/\" target=\"_self\" role=\"button\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tNext Lesson\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Chapter 12 Mature Love Time continues to advance and our lovers have matured. Once again we are shown a scene from their life when they are having intercourse. 7\u00a01\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201cHow beautiful are your feet in sandals, \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0O prince\u2019s daughter! \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0The curves of your hips are like jewels, \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0The work of the hands of an artist. 2\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201cYour&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":4463,"menu_order":11,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-4580","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":8489,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/bible-studies\/preparation-for-a-lifetime\/leaving-childhood-behind\/","url_meta":{"origin":4580,"position":0},"title":"Leaving Childhood Behind","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"August 27, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Leaving Childhood Behind Our awareness of sex generally begins during our adolescent years. 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