What do you suggest I do?

Question: Hi, I badly need someone to talk to and someone to give me advice as I am really in extreme emotional pain. I’m several months pregnant. My boyfriend is separated and has children from his ex-wife. I have accepted that for he is getting his divorce this year after his ongoing trial. We were…

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Will God help us if we continue our adultery?

Question: I have been in a hard marriage for 14 years. I moved back to my home state and started college again. Within a month I was reunited by chance with a man I knew many years ago. He is also married. We have been sleeping together for six months now, and talk every day.…

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To get money, I lied to a man that I’m pregnant with his child

Question: I searched about God and found this site. I am depressed and wondering what I should do. I just need prayers. I just finished college and because I haven’t gotten a job, I met this man who is 60 years old. He started providing for me. He is married to two wives, and he…

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Should I marry the father of my children?

Question: Hello, I am the mother of three children. Their father left us to go and look for green pastures (I mean daily bread) in another country. He promised to come back and we would marry since we lived in sin for a long time. Due to poverty, we couldn’t afford the marriage ceremony and…

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Can I be forgiven of purposeful adultery?

Question: Hi, I am in need of answers and guidance. I much appreciate it. I was in a relationship for five years and had a child. We were married. My former husband cheated and I forgave him but things didn’t work out. I cannot pay for a divorce and he refused to help me with…

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What do I do about my past affair?

Question: I have been married for almost 30 years.  I got married in my early twenties to my high school sweetheart for all the wrong reasons.  I have really never been happy in this marriage.  I have grown children.  I had an affair with a man for ten years.  We both were Catholics and this…

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Should I go to the wedding of a brother who is committing adultery?

Question: Hello friend! I need help answering a question: One of the college students at my church asked me this and I’m stumped, so I figured a brother in Christ could help me. Here’s what she asked: “My brother is getting married through the court, but he has already been married through the church and…

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My relationship with God has always been a roller coaster

Question: Hello and thank you for reading, I am a 25-year-old man. I was born in a Christian family, my father being a pastor. My relationship with God has always been a roller coaster. There have been times when my faith has been strong and my will was aligned with God’s. I would even speak…

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Can a Christian who fell into sexual sin return to God?

Question: I want to tell you about my friend. He is facing some confusion regarding his Christian life. He had committed adultery after baptism having had sexual relations with a lady older than him. He was baptized at the age of 16, but according to him the real evil thoughts and evil work in his…

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I lied to my wife about my adultery. Do I have to tell her?

Question: Hi, I am writing this email to ask a serious question about my life. I’m a Christian. I have been married for three years. But I had a problem with sex “addiction” (I’m not that sure if it’s or not). I am highly drawn to girls since I was young just to have sex…

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I need help getting out of adultery and addiction

Question: Good evening sir, I need help with sin. I know Jesus is the only help, I gave my life to Christ initially two years ago. I’ve rededicated my life a number of times since then. God started blessing me, I basically have come from zero to something. God gave me a virtuous wife, a…

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Am I still an adulterer?

Question: I am writing to you because I’m trying to find what held me back from God’s blessings and promises. I was born in a Christian family, and ever since I was a Christian with strict standards. My parents taught me well. I never had a girlfriend until 18. Then I met her. We developed…

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Is it a sin to marry a woman who has committed adultery?

Question: Is it a sin to marry a woman who has committed adultery? She is not married and I’m willing to forgive her and start afresh with her. Answer: Technically, you have nothing to forgive her. When she committed adultery, she sinned against God, against the man’s wife, and against herself. “Flee sexual immorality. Every…

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I just want a happier environment for my child and me

Question: Hello, I am currently unemployed and have been for 6 months. Four years ago I fell in love with someone else. My goal is to find another job, then my child and I will move, or whatever we as the parents decide. We had a huge argument a few days ago. He said he…

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I got involved with a man at church. How do I overcome this?

Question: I am a woman going through a very tough time trying to raise two children making all the major decisions alone. First and foremost, I am going through a divorce for the last two years which needs to be finalized.  I met a younger gentleman through the church, and we spent a lot of…

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Troubled Over Immorality

by Connie Adams Nothing can create more havoc in a home or a congregation than immoral behavior on the part of Christians or their children. Webster defines immoral as “Inconsistent with purity or good morals.” Immorality is defined by Webster as “the quality or state of being immoral: wickedness, esp. unchastity.” It is immoral to…

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I reconnected with a man I had sex with before I was married

Question: Hello, I’ve found myself drifting off in this direction and would appreciate your help. I’ve been married for 18 years to a lovely man of God and we have several children. My problem is that before we got married I met and fell in love with someone else, and he started having oral sex…

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I cheated on my marriage. Can I be forgiven? Can I remarry?

Question: Blessings! I have three questions: Will God forgive me because I committed adultery twice in my marriage with the same man and I was already a Christian? Can I remarry the man with the one I cheated on my now ex-husband with? We still see each other and talk, but we don’t have sex…

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My wife is having an affair and wants a divorce. What do I need to do?

Question: Hello, My wife and I have been married for 15 years. For over five years I have been dealing with jealousy issues because of flirting and her having emotional-type affairs with other men. I felt like my masculinity was in question and if I said the way she was acting bothered me, it seemed…

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What does a wife do when she finds condoms in her husband’s car?

Question: As a Christian what should you do in the following situation? What if a wife found condoms in her husband’s car, one used. She confronts him and asks, but he says they must be really really old because he hadn’t purchased condoms since 2011? But according to research that had been done, going by…

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I’ve returned to a life of sin and I feel so depressed

Question: I am a 34-year-old male. I am married and have one son. I am living abroad and alone for my work. I have been living in sexual sins and not living a holy life for many years, even before my marriage and after. My spiritual life was bad most of my life. But two…

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My pastor told me that God wanted me to be his wife

Question: When I was 35 years old I was introduced to this church where the pastor is also a prophet. He is married and we called him daddy and his wife mommy. I was going through a lot at that time and I was helped through that man of God to find peace again in…

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