Index to Questions Asked
Acne
- I have a moderate amount of acne. How do you treat it?
- I started my period when I was 10. I also started to receive acne on my back. I have had it for almost a year now. My mom says it's from my period. Is that true?
- My breasts are different sizes and I have acne all over my body. Is this normal?
Arousal
- I get discharge from my vagina when I get "aroused". It is a thick gooey clear substance that sometimes smells. Why is my body doing this?
- Sometimes when my boyfriend and I kiss my vagina becomes wet, I know that this happens when you are sexually aroused but does that mean we are going to far?
- Why do I have a bad urge to see my boyfriend naked?
Beauty
Breasts
- How do you know if your breasts have finished developing?
- I am uncomfortable with my breast size. They are of average size, but I just want them to be smaller. Is there anyway through exercise, or weight loss that my breasts can be reduced?
- I was just wondering, is it not good for your breasts to wear a bra while you are sleeping at night? Will it make your breasts not grow as big?
- I was wondering if my breasts are going to grow any bigger in my twenties?
- I'm confused about my development of my breasts.
- I've stopped growing, but my breasts don't seem to be fully developed. Do you think they still have some growing to do?
- My breasts are different sizes and I have acne all over my body. Is this normal?
- My breasts are getting rounder and the nipples are expanding. Yesterday, I had my first period. I also noticed that it hurts to run. Is this normal?
- My breasts are not shapped like a women's breasts, they are somewhat pointy, (not round), but it extends beyond the areola, and they are very small. (I don't even fit into an A cup) Is this normal for stage 3? And when will my breasts be more like a women's breasts? Also, at what stage does a girl start her period? And when should I expect to get mine?
- My breasts are smaller than all the women on both sides of my family. Will they grow any more?
- My breasts are still very small compared to everyone else's.
- My breasts seem to look different than normal. Is this because I haven't fully matured yet? If so when will my breasts start to look normal?
- Right now my breasts feel very hard. What's happening?
- What do your breasts feel like as they are developing?
- What is the average age for breasts to stop growing?
- When do you think my inverted nipples will come out, if they ever do come out?
Bumps
- I found two bumps on my outer vagina near the top. It stings a little bit, but today I squeezed them and yellow pus and a little bit of blood came out. What can it be and what can I do?
- I get a bump close to my genitals just before my period comes. The bump doesn’t appear in the same place every time. What could this mean?
- I have little pieces of skin that are on the outside of my vagina that can be seen. They don't hurt or itch. They look like little skin balls, maybe moles or something. I don't know if I should be worried or not.
- I have small bumps on my vagina. What are these small bumps?
- I have these bumps on my vagina, but they don't seem to be irritated; though it itches around my vagina but not in it. I'm afraid that it might be a disease. Also, does touching yourself give you an infection? If you shave your vagina, does it leave bumps on it after?
- I noticed these bumps on my vagina. I am worried that it may be genital herpes, but I also think it could be an alergic reaction to a soap or lotion, or caused by ridding my bike in tight jeans in humid weather.
Clitoris
Clothing
Dancing
Dating
- Can a best friend, who says he only likes me as a friend, possibly be hiding his feelings for me?
- Is it ok for my boyfriend to hold my hands before I get married?
- My crush's birthday is the day after mine. He is always saying he only likes me as a friend, but I told him that I liked him as more than just a friend. I like him a lot; I just don't want to ruin our friendship. He said it was cool because we are such good friends. Should I ask him out and see what happens or should I just wait?
- When should you let go of a person?
Diet
Diseases
- Can chlamydia be caught without intercourse?
- I usually have a painful sore on my vagina each month before my period. Could that be a sign of a STD?
Eating
Fertility
- Can I get pregnant if my uterus is not straight?
- Do all women have two ovaries or can you be born with just one and still have a child?
- Why does a woman only produce one egg per month?
Foreplay
- I have a boyfriend and we both love each other a lot. We used to kiss each other. Then one day we went to a friend's room. I was naked and he was in his underwear. We just kissed and did nothing else, but that has made me feel guilty. I'm nervous whether it will lead to pregnancy.
- I want to ask if sperm that entered your pants can cause you to get pregnant if you are a virgin. I was playing romance with my fiance and he ejaculated into my pants. Afterwards I cleaned it up, but I am scared that it could get me pregnant.
- Is touching a bad thing, or is it bad because it can lead you to further desire? If you come to a point where you're going to lose control, how can you stop?
- Three days after my period, my boyfriend secreated his semen near my vagina. It was just outside, down my back and near the front. Will that cause pregnancy? I did wash up after that, but I'm still worried.
Fornication
- A few days ago, my boyfriend and I were performing mutual oral sex. As I got up, the tip of his penis accidentally brushed my genital region. What are the chances of getting pregnant, if I washed and urinated immediately afterward?
- A while back I and my boyfriend got erotic and he rubbed his penis against my vagina for a minute or two. I had my period a few days and the next month I also had my period at the regular time, but after that I haven't had them. Am I pregnant?
- Can I get pregnant if only the head of the penis was in during his ejaculation?
- Can I get pregnant if the boy gets inside of me just for 6 or 7 seconds without ejaculation, inside or outside?
- I had oral sex with my boyfriend. We both giving it to the other. I am a few days late from my period and my boyfriend thinks I could be pregnant. Could this be true?
- I haven't had my period for almost seven months now. It greatly worries me. I'm afraid that I might get pregnant after having sex with my boyfriend and not being able to tell, but it also confuses me since I haven't had my period for so long. What could be the problem with me?
- I was visiting my boyfriend and he pressed his naked genitals up against mine; harmlessly, I might add. He was releasing the clear fluid before ejaculation, but because I was a little nervous, I refused to let him get too close to the vaginal opening. Now, I know it is possible for the clear fluid to contain sperm, so my question is: what is the chance of pregnancy?
- Is foreplay considered to be sex?
- My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex yesterday and the day before, but he pulled out way before it was time for him to cum. I was wondering, is there anyway I could become pregnant?
- My boyfriend and I were messing around one day and he ejaculated on my hand. Could I get pregnant?
- We slipped up about a week ago and gave in to sex. He used a spermicidal-lubed condom and he pulled out before he finished, but when he got up he noticed some semen around my vaginal area. It is possible the condom leaked. Is it possible that I could get pregnant?
Growth
- By the time I'm 18 years old I want to be 5'8. I started my period when I was about 9 or 10. Do you think I would stop growing because I'm going to be 14 years old?
- Do you stop growing in height after you get periods?
- Do you think I will continue to grow and reach my dream height?
- Everyone says that I am really late at starting, but I don't eat red meat, drink non-fat or Silk milk and eat pretty healthy. I have noticed I have started eating more lately though. Are these all signs that I am going to start my menstrual period soon?
- How soon after menstruation do girls stop growing?
- I am 11 and a half and I just started my period. I do not have pubic hair or hair under my arms and my breast have not started to develop. Is this normal? I thought I would show some outward development prior to my period.
- I am 13 years old and I am the only girl in my class not to have pubic hair or wear a bra. What should I do?
- I heard that girls grow only one or two inch after after her first period.
- I started to grow when I was like 8, then at 10 I stopped. Am I still going to grow?
- I started my menstrual cycle at the age of ten, earlier than all of my friends. At that stage I was taller or as tall as all my friends, but recently they have all had growth spurts and now they are all much taller than me. Do you think I will grow any further?
- If someone has been touching your breasts does that stop them from growing?
- What is the average age for breasts to stop growing?
- When do your hips stop growing?
- When does a girl fully develop?
- When does the average girl stop getting taller?
Hair
- At what age does a girl develop her pubic hair?
- How old should you be to shave your legs?
- I have hair all over my body and it looks really ugly. What can I do?
Height
- I hate that my sister is taller than me. Will I grow anymore? I really want to get to the height of 5'6. Will I grow like 5 more inches since I'm already 14? Do you think my sister will be taller than me in adulthood?
- I started my period a couple of months before I turned 13. Am I going to get much taller? Or is this close to my final height?
- Is the "How Tall Will I Be?" test 100% accurate?
- Other sites claim to predict adult height and be correct to within an inch. Having read your other posts, and if this is in fact my first period, I don't see how I could reach the predicted height. Somebody has to be wrong. What is your take on this?
Homosexuality
- I am almost 16 years old and I am a lesbian. I can remember when I was little maybe 5 or 6 even then looking at other girls in a sexual way. When I was 8 my cousins molested me and made it a little worse. I never acted upon it until 8th grade and I loved it. I have had sex over 58 times with one person. I go to church and pray. Why do I have to be like this?
- I saw the homosexuality page and I didn't get at all what you were trying to say about us. I'm 14 and you are telling me clearly will I go to heaven for being that way? To let you know I would not be this way if I had a choice; there's no way.
Hymen
Infections
- I found two bumps on my outer vagina near the top. It stings a little bit, but today I squeezed them and yellow pus and a little bit of blood came out. What can it be and what can I do?
- I noticed these bumps on my vagina. I am worried that it may be genital herpes, but I also think it could be an alergic reaction to a soap or lotion, or caused by ridding my bike in tight jeans in humid weather.
Kissing
- Does only kissing cause pregnancy?
- I have a boyfriend and we both love each other a lot. We used to kiss each other. Then one day we went to a friend's room. I was naked and he was in his underwear. We just kissed and did nothing else, but that has made me feel guilty. I'm nervous whether it will lead to pregnancy.
Love
Lust
- I have been struggling with masturbation and sexual sin since I have come into the faith. I have done all that I know to do. What am I doing wrong?
- I was visiting my boyfriend and he pressed his naked genitals up against mine, harmlessly. I refused to let him get too close to the vaginal opening. What is the chance of pregnancy?
- If I have a sexual dream about a boy that I like, who doesn't have a girlfriend, is that a sin?
- Is touching a bad thing, or is it bad because it can lead you to further desire? If you come to a point where you're going to lose control, how can you stop?
- Why do I have a bad urge to see my boyfriend naked?
Marriage
Masturbation
- I've read that masturbation helps to reduce menstrual pain. Is it true?
- I have a habit of masturbating. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to say "no" to this thing.
- I have been struggling with masturbation and sexual sin since I have come into the faith. I have done all that I know to do. What am I doing wrong?
Menstruation, Periods
- Could you tell me what could be the reason of my delayed period?
- How soon after menstruation do girls stop growing?
- I am 11 and a half and I just started my period. I do not have pubic hair or hair under my arms and my breast have not started to develop. Is this normal? I thought I would show some outward development prior to my period.
- I am almost 15 years old and I have not had any menses, no growth in height (I am very short) and no signs of physical maturity. I've consulted doctors many times amd they tell me they can't do anything. Please, can you guide to what to what I should do?
- I am curious to know when I will get my first period.
- I am very thin and my periods don't come regularly. Why is it so important to eat right to have regular periods? What will happen if you don't?
- I have been having my periods since August, but then they stopped for a week or two in late December to early January. I want to know what is wrong.
- I have found "blood" in my underwear it was only a VERY small amount. Is this my period?
- I have regular period cycles and my period date is 26th of every month; otherwise there is a delay of one or two days. The periods happen one day before or one day after. But now I don't have my periods until the 7th. I am doing regular exercise. Will it effect my periods or my cycle? Please help me, I am worried.
- I have very irregular periods. Will I be able to have children?
- I haven't had my period for almost seven months now. It greatly worries me. I'm afraid that I might get pregnant after having sex with my boyfriend and not being able to tell, but it also confuses me since I haven't had my period for so long. What could be the problem with me?
- I heard that girls grow only one or two inch after after her first period.
- I keep having my period every other week. And they last for 10 to 13 days! I want to know if that is normal or not.
- I started bleeding "down there" and I don't know what's happening. It's not my period because it burns really bad and I dont know what to do about it. I'm really scared and I don't want to tell my mom because she would make me go to the doctors and I don't want anyone looking down there because it really freaks me out.
- I started my period when I was 10. I also started to receive acne on my back. I have had it for almost a year now. My mom says it's from my period. Is that true?
- Is it normal for a woman to see her menstruation for more than seven days?
- Is there any danger to having sex during your menstrual period?
- I've read that masturbation helps to reduce menstrual pain. Is it true?
- My breasts are not shapped like a women's breasts, they are somewhat pointy, (not round), but it extends beyond the areola, and they are very small. (I don't even fit into an A cup) Is this normal for stage 3? And when will my breasts be more like a women's breasts? Also, at what stage does a girl start her period? And when should I expect to get mine?
- My period was never monthly regular, but I did get it every other month or so. Now I'm 16 and I haven't had my period since May of last year (nine months ago). The last time i had my period I was still in cheerleading. It has almost been a year and i was wondering if there is something wrong with me?
- My periods are random, painful, and heavy. Do you think this is normal?
- My periods stopped. What should I do to get back my periods?
- What are the signs of menstruation?
- Why are times between some of my menstrual periods long?
- Why do I have cramps ten days before my period?
- Why does the lining of blood build up on the wall of the uterus after an ovum has been released?
- Will a girl gain weight before menstruation?
- Yesterday I had a few spots of blood in my underwear. Today I had just one spot and a little bit of blood when I wiped. Now I don't have anything. Is this my first period?
Nakedness
- I have a boyfriend and we both love each other a lot. We used to kiss each other. Then one day we went to a friend's room. I was naked and he was in his underwear. We just kissed and did nothing else, but that has made me feel guilty. I'm nervous whether it will lead to pregnancy.
- I was visiting my boyfriend and he pressed his naked genitals up against mine, harmlessly. I refused to let him get too close to the vaginal opening. What is the chance of pregnancy?
Nipples
- How come one of my nipples has a hole in it and the other one doesn't?
- When do you think my inverted nipples will come out, if they ever do come out?
- When will the nipples completely form? At what age does this occur?
Ovaries, Ovum, Eggs
- Do all women have two ovaries or can you be born with just one and still have a child?
- Why does a woman only produce one egg per month?
Pregnancy, Pregnant
- A few days ago, my boyfriend and I were performing mutual oral sex. As I got up, the tip of his penis accidentally brushed my genital region. What are the chances of getting pregnant, if I washed and urinated immediately afterward?
- A while back I and my boyfriend got erotic and he rubbed his penis against my vagina for a minute or two. I had my period a few days and the next month I also had my period at the regular time, but after that I haven't had them. Am I pregnant?
- Can a woman get pregnant if the condom slips off after sex?
- Can I get pregnant if my uterus is not straight?
- Can I get pregnant if only the head of the penis was in during his ejaculation?
- Can I get pregnant if the boy gets inside of me just for 6 or 7 seconds without ejaculation, inside or outside?
- Can I get pregnant if the semen runs out during intercourse?
- Can I get pregnant two days before my period?
- Can I get pregnant without him ejaculating?
- Can I kill sperm by me just by simply urinating?
- Can semen reach your vagina even when you have clothes on?
- Does only kissing cause pregnancy?
- How long does it take for a sperm to travel to your uterus, 3 days or a week?
- How much sperm can cause you to become pregnant?
- I had oral sex with my boyfriend. We both giving it to the other. I am a few days late from my period and my boyfriend thinks I could be pregnant. Could this be true?
- I have a boyfriend and we both love each other a lot. We used to kiss each other. Then one day we went to a friend's room. I was naked and he was in his underwear. We just kissed and did nothing else, but that has made me feel guilty. I'm nervous whether it will lead to pregnancy.
- I haven't had my period for almost seven months now. It greatly worries me. I'm afraid that I might get pregnant after having sex with my boyfriend and not being able to tell, but it also confuses me since I haven't had my period for so long. What could be the problem with me?
- I want to ask if sperm that entered your pants can cause you to get pregnant if you are a virgin. I was playing romance with my fiance and he ejaculated into my pants. Afterwards I cleaned it up, but I am scared that it could get me pregnant.
- I was visiting my boyfriend and he pressed his naked genitals up against mine; harmlessly, I might add. He was releasing the clear fluid before ejaculation, but because I was a little nervous, I refused to let him get too close to the vaginal opening. Now, I know it is possible for the clear fluid to contain sperm, so my question is: what is the chance of pregnancy?
- Is it possible to get pregnant from fondling?
- My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex yesterday and the day before, but he pulled out way before it was time for him to cum. I was wondering, is there anyway I could become pregnant?
- My daughter had sex 2 or 3 days after her cycle stopped. When she had sex, the condom was off when he pulled out. Is she pregnant?
- Three days after my period, my boyfriend secreated his semen near my vagina. It was just outside, down my back and near the front. Will that cause pregnancy? I did wash up after that, but I'm still worried.
- We slipped up about a week ago and gave in to sex. He used a spermicidal-lubed condom and he pulled out before he finished, but when he got up he noticed some semen around my vaginal area. It is possible the condom leaked. Is it possible that I could get pregnant?
- What harm can it do to the baby or woman if the boy ejaculates sperm into the woman while she is pregnant?
- When do your hips stop growing?
Prostitution
Puberty
Rape
- I have a friend who was raped. She wants to know if she is still a virgin according to the Bible. Is she?
- I'm in high school and we have this project that we have to do and the topic choice was up to us and I chose to do mine on rape. I was wondering if you could help me out and send me any kind of information that you have on rape.
- What if you are living with a rapist who is a part of your family, and they keep trying to have sex with you, but you had no choice?
Relationships
- Can a best friend, who says he only likes me as a friend, possibly be hiding his feelings for me?
- My crush's birthday is the day after mine. He is always saying he only likes me as a friend, but I told him that I liked him as more than just a friend. I like him a lot; I just don't want to ruin our friendship. He said it was cool because we are such good friends. Should I ask him out and see what happens or should I just wait?
Sex
- Can a woman get pregnant if the condom slips off after sex?
- Can I get pregnant if only the head of the penis was in during his ejaculation?
- Can I get pregnant if the boy gets inside of me just for 6 or 7 seconds without ejaculation, inside or outside?
- Can I get pregnant if the semen runs out during intercourse?
- Can I get pregnant without him ejaculating?
- Can I kill sperm by me just by simply urinating?
- Can semen reach your vagina even when you have clothes on?
- How long does it take for a sperm to travel to your uterus, 3 days or a week?
- How much sperm can cause you to become pregnant?
- I never had sex before, but I think about it often. Is that a sin?
- If I have a sexual dream about a boy that I like, who doesn't have a girlfriend, is that a sin?
- Is foreplay considered to be sex?
- Is it possible to get pregnant from fondling?
- Is there any danger to having sex during your menstrual period?
- What harm can it do to the baby or woman if the boy ejaculates sperm into the woman while she is pregnant?
- When a woman's virginity is broken, how long does she bleed?
Sexually Transmitted Diseases, STD's
- Can chlamydia be caught without intercourse?
- I noticed these bumps on my vagina. I am worried that it may be genital herpes, but I also think it could be an alergic reaction to a soap or lotion, or caused by ridding my bike in tight jeans in humid weather.
- I usually have a painful sore on my vagina each month before my period. Could that be a sign of a STD?
Skin
Tanner Stages of Development
- Are there chances that I will grow still? The Tanner test said that I was at level 3.5. All my cousins and sisters are tall. Will I continue to grow?
- At what age does a girl develop her pubic hair?
- Do you stop growing in height after you get periods?
- How do you know if your breasts have finished developing?
- I am almost 15 years old and I have not had any menses, no growth in height (I am very short) and no signs of physical maturity. I've consulted doctors many times amd they tell me they can't do anything. Please, can you guide to what to what I should do?
- I am two minutes older than my twin brother and I am much more mature. Is that normal?
- I was just wonder when I will get my period
- I was wondering if my breasts are going to grow any bigger in my twenties?
- In the Tanner Stage Calculator what is the number the Estimated Tanner Stage calculation generates?
- Is it normal to have underarm hair at 11 years of age? I have no other signs of puberty yet.
- I'm confused about my development of my breasts.
- My breasts are not shapped like a women's breasts, they are somewhat pointy, (not round), but it extends beyond the areola, and they are very small. (I don't even fit into an A cup) Is this normal for stage 3? And when will my breasts be more like a women's breasts? Also, at what stage does a girl start her period? And when should I expect to get mine?
- The Tanner Stage Calculator estimated I was at stage 4.6, what exactly does that mean?
- What is the average age for breasts to stop growing?
- When do your hips stop growing?
- When does the average girl stop getting taller?
- When will I move to the next stage of development?
- When will the nipples completely form? At what age does this occur?
- Your Tanner Stage Calculator says I'm at 3.9 but I haven't had a growth spurt yet. Will I grow any more?
Uterus
- Can I get pregnant if my uterus is not straight?
- Why does the lining of blood build up on the wall of the uterus after an ovum has been released?
Vagina
- How far up is the hymen?
- I discharge constantly. It seems like it never stops! Is this normal?
- I get discharge from my vagina when I get "aroused". It is a thick gooey clear substance that sometimes smells. Why is my body doing this?
- I have small bumps on my vagina. What are these small bumps?
- I usually have a painful sore on my vagina each month before my period. Could that be a sign of a STD?
- Is using soap to wash the vagina harmful?
- I've found some thing big as little finger in my vigina. It doesn't hurt at all, but it does scare me. Please help.
- What is the sticky fluid inside a woman's vagina?
- Why is my vagina is now looking kind of wrinkled?
Vulva
- How do you prevent your vaginal lips from changing color, such as brown? Or is that genetic?
- I have little pieces of skin that are on the outside of my vagina that can be seen. They don't hurt or itch. They look like little skin balls, maybe moles or something. I don't know if I should be worried or not.
- I have small bumps on my vagina. What are these small bumps?
- My vagina looks very blackish like it is covered with dirt. I don't have any other irritation or itching in those areas. Is there anything I can do to remove that color.
Weight
- I am very thin and my periods don't come regularly. Why is it so important to eat right to have regular periods? What will happen if you don't?
- I have been so hungry lately. I will eat a meal and then an hour later I will be hungry again. I seem to be always eating. I haven't been gaining drastic amount of weight, but I worried I will soon. Is this normal?
- Is it a good idea for children my age (age 12) to go on a diet? If it's not (or if it is) then what something I can do to lose weight. When is the best age for a young woman to go on a diet?
- Will a girl gain weight before menstruation?