In neither question is there an indication of anything wrong. When you first start having periods, it is not unusual at all for your periods to be irregular. Your body is still making adjustments and you will miss periods, go extra long some months and some months go extra short. This is all normal. By the time you reach your twenties, the pattern of your periods will settle into a more regular rhythm.
The vagina is supposed to be wrinkled. This is what allows it to accommodate giving birth to a baby without tearing.

