It is an interesting question, to which I'm not certain of the answer. The qualifications for being an elder are listed as one currently possessing (I Timothy 3:1-7; Titus 1:5-9). What makes it a bit different than that of a wife is that marriage ends at the death of a spouse (Romans 7:2-3), but such is not the case between a father and his children. I can see it reasonably argued that the man still has faithful children even though they have journeyed to the spiritual realm.
Thanks so much for your response. I look at this question the same way you do. You are correct -- hard to be sure on the answer.
By the way, thanks also for your many topical studies on the web site. I have enjoyed reading through many of your entries.
Happy to be of service.

